My mom yells every day. She stresses over little things like my room being messed up. She takes my phone when my room is even a little imperfect. I’m starting to worry about her.
She’s always been crazy. She once whipped me because my brother had on mismatched socks when I was 11 and he was 7. She said I was supposed to look out for him.
Then years later. I think last year she got mad at me when my 12 year old brother didn’t get anything to eat at a football game we both went to. She yelled and said I was irresponsible.
No one likes her. My brother, my step dad and I all hate when she yells. She yells about EVERYTHING and complains that we are all lazy and she doesn everything around the house. But it seems that even if I do do something around the house she never notices.
She will come home and I’ll tell her what I did to help and if she’s in a bad mood she’ll ungratefully say uh huh leave me alone I just got home but if I don’t tell her what I did she’ll suspect I didn’t do anything and yell.
I am so sick of her. I am 16 going on 17 and I can’t wait until I graduate and move away. I feel sorry for my little brother who is almost 13 now. It’s so hard living with her.
I wonder if she has something else wrong with her mentally because she is out of control. She accuses me of lying when I have absolutely nothing to lie about. She curses like a sailor. Using the F word and all when yelling at my brother and I. If we’re doing bad in school she’ll say you’re gonna flunk. you’re stupid. she’ll call us ugly, stupid, dumb, a b**** ANYTHING when she’s mad.
But when she’s not mad….she’s pretty cool.
I don’t understand why she gets so angry. I mean she goes to work, cleans up, worries about us….what else is there to stress about. She acts as though she can’t handle the pressure of being a mother of 2 whereas there are women out there managing a family of 5 with no father around who can handle their anger better.
Do you think she’s bipolar?
Please help. I need to know. I don’t want to live like this and I don’t want my brother going through this neither