I’ve been with my bf for almost 2 yrs and we have a 4 mo. old baby girl. He’s done so much stuff to me, cheat on my practically the whole time and while I was pregnant and after are daughter was born. I actually even found him trying to talk to some girl up until the begining of Dec. and she told me they slept together, which I believe. He just doesnt appreciate me or his daughter and yet gives me the whole he cant live without us spill and regrets everything he did. I’ve always taken him back but I’m tired of it and I know that he’s going to do it to me again. Not only do me and our baby compete with the girls, we compete with his friends too. He picks going out with them over us all the time, He says he wants to start off on a clean slate this year and that he’s going to change this time and he’s going to take care of us, which I dont believe. I went out a few wks ago and met this guy, who I already know kinda and he asked me for my number. My friends pressured me to give him the number so I did. Hes a great guy, owns his own buisness (my bf dont even work), has kids of his own and is a great dad. He’s a really nice guy and was married but divorced his wife cause she was cheating on him. I’ve talked to him on the phone and went to dinner with him once, thats it. I feel really bad though because of my bf. I’m not a cheater, I’m just tried of being unhappy. My friends and family are saying I;m dum for feeling bad because my bf never feels bad when he’s out cheating on me and comes home to me and the baby and sleeping with these girls. I know he is. So they say why should I feel bad. I do tho cause I love him and honestly I dont know how he does it and not think twice about it cause it’s eating me up and he does it like nothing. I told this guy I’m not interested in a relationship and he knows my situation. Its just nice to meet someone who wants the same thing in life and is a great person. I wish things could work out w/ my bf but I know he’s never going to change, he’s promised me so many times. Do I believe him and give him his 100+ chance to prove it to me and our baby and stop getting to know this other guy or do I just finally give up and go with the chance to get to know someone who I know would definetly treat me right and honestly I could see myself happy with and treated right by? I’m confused. Please help. Like I said I’m not trying to rush into something I just dont want to cut a good person out of my life for the person who has done nothing but hurt and betray me and our baby cause I hope he’s going to change??? I’m just scared that what if my bf is serious this time about changing and i’ll walk away right when he was going to change and give us what we deserve.