with me the other night and they said I have to either go to school or get a job or find a new place to live, they will pay for me to go to school, but I don’t want to do either. My life was good until my mom got married and my step-dad is a real asshole, she wouldn’t be saying this to me if he wasn’t pressuring her. I am only 30 years old and not ready to do all this just yet, how can I break them up so things can go back to the way they were