I been with my BF 2 1/2 years.Im now 22 and he is 26.4 months into dating me he told me he was pretty sure he wanted to marry me and 11/2 years ago due to a roommate moving out He moved in to help pay the lease.
He saved up for a ring but I wasn’t looking at being engaged 1 year into the relationship and if we saved up once we could do it again.

We hit a hard wall with school,with jobs so now we are trying to get back on track.
It doesn’t help that my parents want him to convert (they would pay for the wedding and absolutely spoil thier future grand kids,help with down payment for our house etc once he did such)

I had to move out for a few weeks due to my father becoming aggitated at everything and blaming it on my BF. While i was gone my BF became friends with this guy that is complete posion.
He in his upper 30’s has high blood pressure, drinks constantly, smokes at least 2 packs a day, loves to get into fights, loves to fuck though hasn’t been with anyone in over 1 1/2 years, has a messed up back that causes him problems from time to time, and he just lives in his own dream world. can not manage himself enough to have a checking account and never has a nice thing to say about women but brags about his sexual prowess. A lot of us suspect behind his back that he is either gay or bi but wont admit it to himself.

He doesn’t like me at all and he made that clear becouse i visited with someone else instead of him the day after a party that he trashed her house and she spent a few hours having to clean up and i didn’t want to talk about it with him.

I have a feeling that he wants to break us up. my BF no longer looking at how soon we could get married, he not even sure if we will get married anymore.

I love him with all my heart but am i wasting my time? is he to poisoned by this friend ?
My bf always been a person to just go along with stuff but he does stand his ground when he wants to.
This friend of his is violent and he knows it so he rather talk to outside of the guys house about what the guy said then to his face.

My Bf tried to warn me to stay away from the posion and that the truth of it is he rather go out and do stuff with me but since we work opposite shift right now ( i work 3pm-11 at a hospital and he works 7-3pm that we don’t see each other often enough)

the posion claims that he calls and talks with my bf parents every so often and that they love him and they can’t stand me. I asked Frank what he thought and he thought that was bull.