I’ve finally met my soul mate or have I? If you’ve got nothing better to do You be the judge?
She is playful and lets her inner child shine through. She’s witty and draws me in with her words and quick thinking. She is so charming and can get on my good side in a heartbeat. She’s somewhat old fashioned when it comes to dating and wants to take things slow and She’s a little reclusive and plays hard to get. She likes to hold my hand but not really a touchy feely type of girl. And She said she even feels really comfortable with me even on the meeting me date she said she felt so comfortable she even kissed me yet she swore she doesn’t hardly ever do that, it seems so perfect and we both have hit it off like we might be soul mates. We hold hand everywhere we go.

The trouble is, she also sends mixed signals and leaves me wondering if she is truely interested in me or not, so she’s sort of vague sometimes in her answers with me and wont come right out and say it so she seems a little elusive and seems difficult to pin down. I dont know if she likes me or not. Sometimes if I tell her shes pretty she changes the subject. Its like she wants to keep things very pure or something. Yet we can talk about s ex if its in a fun way or joking casual clean way.

We talk for hours on the phone and enjoy each other for hours, but I still dont know for sure what is going on? Am I MORE of a friend or boyfriend?

We mirror each other a lot too like If I start singing she will finish the lyrics. I told her I wrote a song and it had a girls name in it (its just a song nothing more the name sorta fit si used it) so she says she wrote a song too and it had a guys name in it. And starts singing it But I got a little jealous and asked who’s he?
But shes the sort of person who takes cues from me and then responds in kind, I asked her today if she liked me as a friend or more like a boyfriend? she said there are things about me that she really likes, but things that she doesnt like. She said she thinks I am an attractive guy but wont come right out and tell me unless pressures to answer, she wont say things like I really dig you like crazy or I really like you and I sort of need to hear her say how much she likes me so I can get a better idea of where we stand. I need to know if she likes me but like I said she is a little old fashioned and plays hard to get, sometimes it seems she just isnt that interested in me too like she can take it or leave it sometimes. I cant figure her out? its really bothering me too. Why is it so difficult with her to get her to say she likes me and feels the same.
Why does she keep talking with me for hours, We seem like we are girlfriend and boyfriend sometimes and if there is a guy who likes her she will tell me and if a guy friend comes over she tells me, but I dont know where the heck this relationship is going? Any clues?
I would like to thank everyone so far for answering , this is really helping me. Thank you for your straight up honesty.