Open Question: Why do we have to fight about genders?
Posted by adminJul 31
I don’t understand why people put so much pressure on parents to name their baby with either a girl name or boy name. I don’t really like to think their is a limit on naming a baby but to some extent there is. I would not name a girl Jacob nor would I name a boy Catherine. But there are some exceptions like my name I chose for my future baby girl, Rylie Paige. Some people believe that Rylie is more masculine than feminine. I agree, though only a little, but the fact is that I like that name, a lot! Here is another thing, my brother has always told me, there is no such thing as a gender color. If I asked the difference between Pink and Blue, most of you would answer, pink is for girls and blue is for boys. Even in a hospital, they put girls in pink blankets and boys in blue. But why does there have to be so many boundaries for just deciding a name for your baby? Everyone has the right to name their baby what they want! Our minds and choices are what makes us all different! Although many of you will post rude comments about this topic, I am just trying to reach out to the moms-to-be and let them know that it is their choice and their right and that is alright to name their baby what they want. Not everyone is a tomboy nor a prep but you never no what your future baby might turn out to be. Just because you’re a prep doesn’t mean your baby will be!
I am a tomboy, I was the only girl I knew that HATED: shopping, dresses, high heels, make overs, expensive hair styling, nail polish, girl talk, chatting on the phone with your girlfriends, boy chasing (proudly married), watching romance movies, going on dates (me and my husband stayed home or went drinking with friends), and there is a lot more that I don’t have time to explain.
I enjoy camping, swimming, fighting, fishing, drinking games (such as: beer pong, waterfall, F the dealer), chillin with friends, playing pool, cleaning, cooking, I work 36-40 hours a week as a pharmacy technician, sleeping, four-wheeler riding, tree climbing, I would like to try sky diving, scubadiving.
I want to be a mom one day, but only when I am ready. Please comment on the subject before I got into my detail life… The only thing I see wrong with my dialog, is that I am comparing tomboys to preps. I don’t mean any harm because like I said, I am the only girl I know that does not do anything like any other girl, whom are which my friends. I’m not lonely and they always threaten me that they will take me clothes shopping. I will not go willing! ;P
Also, I am not over reacting, if I were everything would be in CAPS LIKE THIS AND THEN THE COMPUTER THING WOULD TELL ME THAT I AM IMPYLING THAT I AM MAD. I am just trying to get a point through and give enough reason behind my topic, didn’t anyone ever study english? LOL! Joking but seriously, I just deep and intellectual answers. Not like You’re stupid wrong. That is not cool…
Thank you all, so far, for the non-rude comments, rates all!






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