My soon tobe exe says I am abusive because I told her she was stupid old fat an ugly when we were still married, she says thats emotional abuse. Having affairs is emotional abuse. If she has a chronic pain condition and doesnt get to sleep until 3 AM and I wake her up at 6 AM banging around in the kitchen she says that is also emotional abuse. Threatening to throw her out of the house at midnight is supposedly also emotional abuse. Taking the phone away from her is physical abuse, she wouldnt let go of it and fell on the floor when I yanked on it really hard, I didnt push her or hit her.

It seems to me that everything a guy does these days is abuse. I accidentally threw out a ring her kids gave her once and according to her that was emotional abuse because she believes it was intentional. If you make plans with your wife and then get distracted and forget and dont come home until 6 AM the next morning that is allegely also emotional abuse.

When I told a friend of hers that my soon to be exe wife was a mental case and was off her meds, she takes a ton of vitamins and supplements and high blood pressure pills, and that she would bitch if her ice cream was cold and that if this friend was smart she would have nothing to do with my wife, I was again accused of emotional and mental abuse. My wife was going out with this friend and I am sure they were talking about me so I wanted her to know what my side of the story was. My wife says I had no right to contact or talk to her friend. Same with her hairdresser, I just got my hair cut and told her my side of the problems in my marriage. No big deal, I have the right to make sure she isnt telling lies about me in my opinion. How the hell can that be emotional abuse? My wife wasnt even there, she didnt hear what I said.

In my opinion this whole abuse crap is just another way for women to try to control men. If men arent following them around with their tail between their legs, and bowing to them and catering to them and doing everything they tell you to do then you are an abuser.

So what is legally emotional abuse? It seems to me its everything a man does these days.
I never once hit my wife. I would never hit a woman. So how can I be called an abuser?
I’m serious, I think this abuse thing is just another fad going around and its gotten way out of hand. Married people argue, they have disagreements, no marriage is perfect.