We have been separated since JULY. I asked him to leave because we had no communication. We have talked more since we separated than we did when we were together. We rarely see each other. We do talk. he says that I always want to talk about our problems. How can we move forward if we do not fix our issues? He says I push. His personality, he wants to be left alone. How can we fix things if we do not talk? I find it very hard not to talk to him. It seems that we always do talk about our problems, but I am not always the one to bring them up. He says he loves me and he wants to get back together. He says I have no patience (I do not) I told him that If he would simply show me that he loved me, the rest would take care of itself. PLEASE help me, how can I stay away from him? I do not feel that I can go out because I am married. I told a fib and said that I was moving on and that I deserved someone that would show me love. (He can not get an erection because of his high blood pressure) How do I let go? Should I let go? I need help.