Long story as short as I can. I met this guy Sept. 2008. We have tried to date in the past, but he was still getting over ex, etc. Well we tried to date August/Sept. 2009. Well things were just either going to fast for him or he was feeling pressure. Not sure. But we cooled it off. He did his thing I did mine. We still stayed in touch a little bit. While that time off he met a married woman at a dog park and realized they had a lot in common and became physical. It ended. We started to date again Nov 2009 and have been together since. I still have trust issues with him. I always questioned who the woman was and assumed it was some married girl on his Facebook. He denied it and said it was some Asian woman but they have stopped communicating. Well, last week I had to borrow his laptop and right on the screen was a chat message from the woman I assumed on Facebook. She asked him how his party he went to was and then said miss you. It was literally right on the screen, I was not snooping. I confronted him. He said it was innocent. Well, after me grilling him a few more times, he finally came clean. The woman I assumed was indeed the woman he had an affair with. I guess mid October her hubby found texts from him to her. They had to pretty much end things and she knew what she was doing was wrong. Well I told him I am so hurt he lied (when I understand he lied because he was scared and knew if I knew the truth I would never have dated him) and asked him to end all contact with her. He said he did not see why him just being friends with her should effect our relationship.

So…that in a nutshell my Yahoo peeps…do I stay with this guy knowing they still chat? I know he is into me as I am with him alot, however, he told me she is the one who does alot of the initiating contact asking him how he is, etc. He also tried to delete her off Facebook but she insisted that them just being friends is not a bad thing. However, I am pretty sure her hubby does not know that she sends him miss you messages or emails him at work. Apparantly she is in therapy. I said no therapist would say her still talking to you is right…he said he sees no wrong in it.

So really…I would like to see what other people think!!

PS - He did say if we were more serious he would consider ending their friendship.

PPS - I have posted this in another category earlier, just trying to get as many different answers as possible. Thanks!

And was almost sectioned I also revealed some disterbing thoughts that I was having while I was under the pressure of PND i didnt know what was happening to me but I had sever disturbing thoughts which have now bening taken seriously these thoughts included my little one now that my thoughts that I had have been brought to the authorities because in my weakness I told a psychic of what I was going through and asked her for advice but instead of helping she has given my information and phone calls to the police. Now I have scarred my little one’s life because social workers psycatrist and a whole range of people came to see me when I revealed the thoughts that I had on that phone call. My little one has a tarnished reputation to the authorities because they still view the thoughts I had as real. PND is a horrible thing my life was pretty much fine up until now and now that Im better Im still left with the server scars from what I revealed in that conversation. I will never have a normal life my 5 month old son will be scarred because of my change of my behaviour. My parter doesnt know what to do as its scarred him also my life is in a shambles due to my post natal depression sometimes I wish to end it all as thats selfphish I’ll have to live a bitter life turing my back on the life I originally wanted to have because Ive scared myself. Because my thoughts where sever. Ive scarred my partner and Ive scarred my little precious gem and he hasnt even been in the world that long.

I wish I could wipe the plate clean and start again afresh I hate myself for getting this sick.
What could I do to revive myself to.

i have a 1991 camaro with a 3.1L v6 multiport injected engine and it will not run right. it will start and run really really rough for about 15 min and some time it will not start at all. i replaced a bad injector and cleaned the other ones, my fuel pressure is with in specs. and my ignition module and coil are good my vacuum is good but when it does run it runs rich…its not my spark plugs cuz they are all good.. my pressure regulator is good so i kno its not that. i got a new engine coolant temp sensor as well. and when u go to drive it it shuts off…. can some one help me please????

Hi I have a triton ivory 2 shower and I was mid shower and the water stopped coming out of the shower head and started coming out of a little pipe coming out of the bottom of the shower unit (I thought it was possibly the over flow? :S) My brother came and had a look and thought it was limescale in the shower head we cleaned it out and still nothing so he suggested a new shower head, although there was a slow trickle of water coming from the shower head the vast majority was coming out of the possible overflow pipe? Im not sure whether its possible to loose pressure or something. But Im lost without my shower so was wandering if anyone had any suggestions as to what might be wrong and a possible solution thank you

My ear has been very sensitive and in pain lately. When I put pressure on that small part of my ear in the middle, it really hurts. The inside has been itching like crazy, but I can’t itch in there because it’s too painful and inflamed. But I did use a q-tip to clean it, and this gross (not-normal-looking) orange gunk came out… XP So, does this sound like an inner ear infection or just too much wax in there? (I has stopped using q-tips a few months ago because I heard it hurts your inner ears.) Thanks!

I’m starting a business doing scheduled maintenance on heavy trucks and machinery. My service would include, New oil (Shell Rotella) and filters (Fleetguard). Check and Top all fluids, check all running lights and replace bulbs as needed, check and adjust tire pressures, as well as greasing the entire chassis and drive line. I will be bringing my mobile service trailer to the truck and doing it on location.

What would this be worth?

Also, was thinking of making a package with hot water power washing and cleaning the interior of the cab with the above service.

What do you think? How much more would this be worth?

I have been stretching my ears, and recently had a small blowout after trying to stretch them from a 6g to a 4g too soon. After a couple of days, I downsized and cleaned it out with sea salt and water. It’s been about a month now, but it’s still a little sore when pressure is applied. I took out my gauge and saw that a tiny little spot in the inside of the hole is blue. It seems that that portion is the spot that hurts. Is it an infection? And, if so, what should I do to get rid of it? I just want my ears to be okay. :\

On Monday, she had her teeth and ears cleaned. Routine visit. After the appointment, her right eye is squinting and the other eye is dilated. Today, the vet can’t find anything that could be causing it - no scratches, infection, did an eye pressure test, etc. The vet gave her eye drops to dilate the squinted eye - no change as of 5 hours after the vet visit. Also, been using neo-poly-bac for her squinted eye. She’s eating, going to the potty. She’s more quiet than normal though. Shakes her head some, resting alot. It’s Tuesday evening. Recommendations? Thanks for your help!
On Monday, I took my cats in to get routine teeth and ear cleaning. Although this cat had more wax than the other cat. Just normal routine cleanings, nothing unusual going on before I brought them in. Just wanted things cleaned since they never had these cleanings before.

YES, this cat can blink both eyes. I noticed just now the eye that was squinting is now dilated, but the entire eye is squinted. She usually has big round eyes, her signature. I notice now that her third eyelid is coming up, too. She just shook her head and was off balanced, which has happened a couple of times today. Maybe something happened during the ear cleaning, which I kept bringing up to the vet at the visit today, but the vet didn’t think that was the cause. Also, the vet thought it could be a reaction to the chemicals used yesterday, but she didn’t that was the cause of the squinting either.
Researching Horner’s syndrome, it would seem to me that the vet/vet technician team caused some nerve damage to my cat. I’m definitely not pleased to read about these details! However, if the damage is outside the brain/spinal cord, I think this would be my cat, then hopefully by 8 weeks she would be OK? Is this correct that this syndrome will heal on its own? Would both eyes looks normal? Please, clarify if you can!

first she has diabetes , high blood pressure,high cholesterol,stints in her heart 4, 57,over weight,
before christmas she had her toe removed because of gangrene , they found out it was actually dead up to her knee, she then had just above her knee amputated about 1 month ago, while in the hospital they put her in cardiac care after surgery,because of her heart, the nurse told my father i really don’t know why they put her here we don’t know how to take care of this, but we will.. she kept complaining of her back hurting she had a bedsore starting, they put her in the chair and Left her there for 2 hours. she then started with fevers, never did they care for the sore we asked they said its fine, they then sent her to rehab still the dr went in and saw it scrapped it , she complained it hurt didn’t feel well, fevers, blood sugars kept going 20-40. then sometime way way up. they sent her to the hospital they had specific rules on how to care for it clean 2-3 times a day, i called her as i did everyday she was crying in pain, they gave her pain medicine and antibiotics, the next day she was admitted to hospital, her breathing was not good they put her on a ventilator her kidneys were not doing good, fevers, we found out she got sepsis from her untreated bedsore, they did surgery infection did end just at the bone, huge hole, then in the time she was brought in she had a heart attack now one side of her heart is only pumping 30% supposed to be 50%.. now if and when she can breath on her own we they will look at her heart for damages, we dont even know if this caused any damage to her brain. anywhere else, they told us yesterday her liver wasnt doing well.. still needs to have another surgery on her back, infection was not all removed,
hole is huge, they try everyday to remove they ventilatar but she cant breath on her own at all.. What are we in for ahead, what does she feel, can she hear us, does she know we are there, is she trying to move her hands on her own or is that like a reflex, is there brain activity, is she coming home, how long do we wait, how long do we hold on, does she wanna go,,, I need advice, help,,, scared, tired, helpless for her my MOMMY,, God help!!!!

We live in the rural area of our community and therefore, have a well to supply us water. Last month we had to replace the jet pump and pressure tank. Everything was fine for a few days, then we started getting a strong smell from the water. Got that cleared up. Now, when water is turned on in the upstairs bathroom, it is almost black, does not have an odour, gets darker the longer it is is running. I took the little filter off the tap to see if there was something inside, but it is clean. All the other taps in the home run clear water…bathrm. in basement, kitchen sink, just the bathroom. There is a slight smell, but cannot detect it for long. I have a water softening unit in the basement, had someone come out to look at it, and it is working fine. We did a backwash on it for 2 hours and the smell is gone and water is clear, except for the bathroom. Does anyone have any ideas what is going on?