Whenever the washer/dryer is beeping, I would go and change loads but then he starts up this whole argument of how I’M the lazy one. He’s closer, he’s the one with the problem, but he decides to drag this out for some reason. I’m not gonna do it anymore, since he’ll think that he’s won, and that he can make me do anything through pressure. Whenever I ask him why he can’t do it, he claims he always does, which I point out he doesn’t, to which he replies he DOES, even at 2 in the morning, which are both lies. I point out logic, reason and the truth, but no, he has some sort of high and mighty force field around him.
When I’m watching TV/using my iPod, he threatens to take it away until I do so. I’m 15 and he’s 16, maybe since he really into the puberty stage he’s like this, but please provide other reasons. He’s always bothering me. When I try to play the piano, he sits next to me and plays the same song, saying that I suck at it, even though I just started, or he reads in my ear when I’m playing. Whenever I’m watching TV, he takes the remote away from me. When I stick up for myself and say no, he threatens to hurt me, and if I still refuse he actually goes through with it. Whenever I don’t listen to him, he takes my laptop off the network so I have to ask him or my dad to put it back on. Whenever I’m just in the car doing nothing, he just makes fun of me or anything about me.
And since we’re in the same high school, this presents him with many more opportunities to make fun of me. I’m hanging out with my friends, he comes over and calls me stupid and starts hitting me for no reason just because he wants to seem cool. When I talk to girls, he assumes they’re my only friends and that I’m gay. When I talk to guys, he assumes that I’m gay for them. (I’m neither of the two). He constantly tells his friends I am, or says something like oh, you’ll have to ask him yourself implying that I am, even though I’ve told him countless times I’m not. Now all his friends think I am, and I’m pretty sure he and his friends are trying to convince everyone else around me that I am.
And please try not to give me any of your kindergarten philosophy that we’ll grow up and be tight, because we won’t, okay? Just drop that idea. He ruins my life beyond repair at every corner and has no remorse for it. Before I even started high school, he told EVERYONE he could that I was gay. And I mean, everyone. So now whenever his friends see me, they hear my voice and say it sounds gay or that I dress gay or something. He likes to say that I’m weak and stupid, he likes to make fun of the music I listen to, he thinks that I’m helpless with everything and when I don’t accept it his help he says that I’ll fail, which I don’t. When I leave my door unlocked and I’m using my laptop, he’ll come in and watch what I’m doing or record it or something just to show to his friends just so that they think I’m a loser.
I just want to know what to do about this, is there any way good ways that I can ignore him out of existence (in my world at least) or anything I can do (that isn’t telling my parents, because they don’t really help a lot, and if they do they’re on his side), like some comeback or remark that’ll leave him speechless for sure? I’ve tried the reverse psychology thing, I’ve tried changing the subject, I’ve denied what he’s said a million times, of course I’ve tried ignoring him, he just pesters me until I give him a response and since we’re at home, I can’t really go anywhere. Whenever I think of something to say, he just retorts with something about what his friends think, or what everyone thinks and that he doesn’t know why I’m the way I am. I have stolen from him before, but it was only small kinds of things and I have apologized and paid him back for it, but he still holds this against me. I tell him I don’t care but he constantly brings it up, like when we’re meeting new people he’ll tell them, or when he’s with his friends or I’m with my friends he’ll say it loud enough for me and everyone else to hear. He’s always getting better marks, even though he’s in a higher grade and he says I’ll fail because I probably don’t get it, or it’s too hard for me because I’m too stupid or something. But I’m doing fine. I COULD just do the same thing back, but I don’t like getting revenge because it’s just a never ending war from there. What are the best ways to just block him out of my mind for now, because in a few years….that’s a few YEARS. I’m talking about now. I don’t even want to talk to some people out of the fear that they think that I’m gay and will never talk to me again or publicly embarrass me.
I can’t call him stupid or anything, because he’s somewhat smarter than me even though I’ve told him he’s older so of course he knows more. The only thing I have over him is that I not as lazy as him since I do things myself and get more exercise and that I’m nicer than him.
Common things he says to me: My friends saw you today and they sa
To Anon: Uh, no. I’ve gotten those responses, and surprise surprise, they’ve done zilch to help solve my problems. I’m not sure what world you live in, but in the real world, people like this DO exist, and people tend to try and curb their tendencies to such an extent.
And people hate me? Too many people already hate me because of my brother.
cut off near the end…My friends saw you today and they said that (so and so) gay.I bet you always hang out with (somebody who I don’t even hang out with a lot, but they consider a loser)Ugh, why are you so ugly?You’re super passive. His fault by the way, since he’s always such a bully I don’t want criticism from anyone else so I just have to think about what I say so that I don’t seem like the description that he tells everyone I am. This makes it harder to make friends. So yeah, I can keep on trying ignoring him but he’ll just come up into my face and yell at me and bother me for an answer which I do eventually give. If you can give me some REALLY good ways to ignore him, not fight back, ignore. I don’t want to have to deal with this never ending problem now, because I honestly couldn’t care less what he thinks but for some reason (and I deeply believe this) he thinks that I actually give a **** about his life. I will not go running to my parents because I know there wil
and again…
know there will be more terrible people in my life so I need to learn how to deal with it now. An authoritative figure won’t always be there to help out. I’m not beating him up, mainly because I can’t, and I’m not gonna stand for this anymore but he just can’t stop and I’ve tried everything I (emphasis on I) can think of.
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