My wife and I have been married just over 4 yrs now. We have a 3 yr old son and a daughter from her previous marriage. We are at a very difficult point in our marriage. We both have flaws that we are working on. I have a short temper, never physical or verbal. I get loud and have been working very hard at remaining calm during discussions. Also, my wife had issue with my working late hrs, I am salary and make good money and was expected by my boss to work until I was done. About3 mnths ago I stopped working late as much as possible, now I get home about 5pm every evening to be with the family and help out. I try to cook as often as possible, my wife does not to cook These are just a few of the items we have been working on. My sticking point at this time is the intimacy and affection that we have or don’t have. After our son was born she suffered Post P. Dep. and our sex life slowed alot. It picked up a little til about a yr ago, when she totally stopped. I was a combination of lack of emotional invovlement on both our parts and a physical issue (endomitriosis). We went to a counsler for a few sessions last fall, it was very expensive and just seem to make things worse. We decided to work on our communication and do what we had to, to keep our marriage going. I have tried several times to have date nights and alone time with my wife, but she doesn’t seem interested in spending time with me. She claims that all I want is sex. We have tried to be more affectionate around he house, but it does not last long on her part. Again, she says all I want is sex. I honestly don’t want sex all the time, I love to cuddle and rub her body. I love my wife very much and think she is very attractive. She gained weight after our son and has not been able to loose much, she has always been really self conscious. I always tell her that she is beautiful and that I love her body. We are to the point now where we have had sex 2 in the past 9 months. For awhile she was letting me touch her while maturbating beside her but she does not like that any more. I understand that sex is painful for her due to the endomitirosis, but I can’t help my need for sex. I have been faithful, but I don’t want to continue like this. It’s hard enough with my short temper, but I feel rejected and lonely. My doctor has put me on blood pressure medication and I have trouble sleeping most times. Has anybody else every dealt with a situation like this. I really think I am a good husband, I cook, clean, work on the house, help with the kids as much as I can. Any advice would be appreciated. I don’t want to stay married just because of the children, that’s not fair to anybody.

And you can tell me what’s wrong with me, and why i have severe mood swings all of a sudden, and acting violent towards people i care about.

Okay, first off, i was born in 1992. My mom was 19, and my dad was in his mid 20s. My dad was a drug addict and alcoholic, but my mom wasn’t. I had to grow up hearing them argue and verbally/physically fight all the time, even though they didn’t live together and didn’t go out. One time when i was about 4, my parents were arguing on christmas eve, and i yelled for them to be quiet so santa could come. My dad came into my room and told me to shut the hell up, because santa wasn’t real. Then another time, i told my dad i hated him, and he replied back i hate you too and slammed my door. I’ve had to grow up hearing my parents have sex, which is so disturbing to hear your parents have sex. My dad raped my mom in front of me, he hit her in front of me, and yelled at both of us. My mom was young in the 90s, so on the weekends, she dropped me off at granny’s house so she could go party with her friends. I’m way closer to my granny because she basically raised me when i was young cause mom was never home. Both of my parents have been addicted to crack cocaine and alcohol (my mom has been clean for 6 years, but my dad still uses). My granny was physically abused by her husband (my grandpa) in the 70s, and when i was little in the 90s, they used to argue alot in front of me. I started liking girls when i was 5, and i had my first kiss with a girl when i was 5. I used to get beat up everyday in preschool by a girl who i would later discover was my cousin. I then transfered to an elementary school where the majority was whites, and in kindergarten, these twins wouldn’t invite me to their B-day party because i was colored. I basically had no real friends until 1st grade when these 2 black twins came to my school. I started having a crush on one of them, but they left in 2nd grade. I didn’t have a real friend until 5th grade, when this family moved to my city. I met this girl, who would eventually become my best friend. We’re still best friends now as seniors. When i went to middle school, i fell in love with this hispanic girl, and everyone found out. I was teased and beat up for the rest of the year, and i was suicidal twice that year. Then 7th grade was boring, and in 8th grade i did track and basketball. I came to high school, and freshman year was fun. 10th grade was okay, and 11th grade was good too. Now i’m going to be a senior next fall, but i am starting to have severe mood swings, and i’m thinking/acting violently. As you probably figured, i’m a lesbian, and when you become a teen, hormones start going crazy. My best friend is starting to notice guys, and i’m getting very jealous. I yell at her, and grab her arm telling her she better not talk to no guys while i’m her friend. I have dreams about hitting her and telling her she’s mine, and she’ll never talk to anyone unless i say so. We used to be very close, but now everytime we hang out, it’s akward, and i end up yelling at her and calling her out of her name. Also, my family is trying to pressure me to get a boyfriend, but i don’t want one. And my mom really wants me to have kids, but i don’t want kids. I’m joining the military, which my family is also opposed too. I have dreams about hurting people, but i want them to stop.

So there’s my life in a nutshell. What do you think my problem is? Why am i having mood swings and acting violent towards people? Do you think i need therapy?

16. Another type of social challenge is the threat to world security. There is a misconception that terrorist attacks always originate in the Middle Eastern region or from members of a single religious group. Where else have terrorist attacks originated between 1995 and 2005?
A. In Peru, where suicide bombers used terrorist tactics in their fight for independence.
B. In Ireland, where the IRA engaged in terrorist attacks on Columbian targets.
C. In Latin America, where terrorism is connected to the illegal drug trade.
D. In South Asia, where terrorists attacked ordinary citizens to further their goals.
17. Weapons of mass destruction are also part of the threat to world security. What are weapons of mass destruction?
A. military weapons used to pressure countries suspected of supporting terrorists
B. Massive weapons created by Hamas, Hezbollah, and al Qaeda
C. biological, chemical, and nuclear weapons, that can cause an enormous amount of destruction
D. weapons that alter the environment to such an extent that they cannot be remediated
18. The Internet allows for instant communication, linking people, educational institutions, businesses, and governments around the world, but not all areas of the world have joined the Information Age. This difference in access to the Internet is called
A. the digital divide.
B. sustainable development.
C. desertification.
D. green revolution.
20. What has led to the rapid growth of biotechnology?
A. Developments in genetics
B. Research into atomic structure
C. Environmental awareness
D. The Information Age
21. Space exploration has helped scientists to understand
A. how to genetically modify plants.
B. the causes of air pollution.
C. the causes of increased amounts of oxygen in the atmosphere.
D. climate change on earth.
22. Desertification and deforestation are both caused by
A. global warming.
B. drought.
C. cutting down trees.
D. erosion.
23. Achieving sustainable development is a major challenge for nations that are trying to raise the standard of living for their citizens. What is sustainable development?
A. Cutting back on the use of resources in order to allow the environment to return to a more natural state
B. Developing the economy in such a way that it does not permanently damage resources
C. Trying to alter the environment to meet the needs of multinational corporations
D. Seeking to improve the use of areas where no development has been undertaken
24. An environmental challenge today is preventing and cleaning up pollution of the land, water, and air. Other environmental challenges include which of the following?
A. Reduce pesticide use by not developing genetically modified plants.
B. Researching ways to encourage population growth.
C. Reducing costs of resources that people need to survive.
D. Fighting global warming and protecting the environment.
25. One affect of environmental change is the rapid growth of the field of biotechnology, which has brought about positive developments and debates. One major debate in biotechnology was brought about by
A. the manufacture of more vaccines to treat diseases.
B. the attempt by agricultural scientists to increase the world’s food production.
C. the development of genetically modified plants that may increase pesticide use.
D. the process of creating identical organisms from a cell of an original organism.
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Technically yes and technically no, Imatired…this WAS my assignment, I like to post my assignments on here when I am done to see who else is able to do them as well, and you have clearly failed. Thank you for your answer though. It is always good for people to stand up to cheaters.

21. Which of the following statements accurately describes the path of oxygenated blood?
Oxygenated blood is taken to the heart, from the lungs into the left atrium via the pulmonary arteries
Oxygenated blood is taken to the heart, from the lungs into the right atrium via the pulmonary veins
Oxygenated blood is taken to the heart, from the lungs into the left atrium via the pulmonary veins
Oxygenated blood is taken to the heart, from the lungs into the left ventricle via the pulmonary veins

22. Blood pressure is considered high if it stays at ________ or higher.
120/80
95/40
130/70
140/90

23. Which of the following statements is not true?
Pulmonary arteries carry blood to both lungs
Blood is distributed throughout the body from the aorta
The coronary arteries supply the heart with blood
Wastes are carried by the blood from the body to the heart through the left ventricle

24. The ___________ is a strong wall of muscle that contracts to create a suction in the chest to draw in air and expand the lungs. When the muscle relaxes, the chest cavity decreases and the air is pushed out.
Pulmonary artery
Breathing apparatus
Trachea
Diaphragm

25. Which of the following statements is NOT true?
Consuming high sugar food right before exercising will give the body a boost of energy for your workout.
The body relies on stored energy to fuel a workout.
Diabetes is a disorder involving the way the body handles sugar.
Eating too much sugar immediately before or during exercise can increase the risk of gastrointestinal problems

26. Select the answer below that best describes how the lungs are kept free of germs and dirt from the air.
The alveoli act as filters for the lungs collecting particles of dirt and germs to be exhaled when the diaphragm relaxes
Tiny hairs known as cilia clean the trachea of dirt and germs before it can enter the lungs
Hairs known as cilia, found inside the alveoli, collect the dirt and germs to be expelled from the lungs
Mucus found in the bronchial tubes collects dirt and germs that gets into your lungs. Tiny hairs called cilia work to sweep out the debris collected to keep your lungs clean.

27. The term “a smoker’s cough” refers to ________________ , which is caused by a long-term inflammation of the bronchi.
Emphysema
Lung cancer
Chronic bronchitis
Cilia degeneration

28. Slow-twitch muscles are needed for:
Quick, short bursts of energy for high intensity
Endurance activities
Speed or power activities
Low endurance and short duration exercises

29. Select the answer below that best fits the following description.

Voluntary
Come in pairs
Attach to the bones through tendons
Made up of long, cylindrical fibers

Striated muscles
Cardiac muscles
Smooth muscles
Contracted muscles

21. Which of the following statements accurately describes the path of oxygenated blood?
Oxygenated blood is taken to the heart, from the lungs into the left atrium via the pulmonary arteries
Oxygenated blood is taken to the heart, from the lungs into the right atrium via the pulmonary veins
Oxygenated blood is taken to the heart, from the lungs into the left atrium via the pulmonary veins
Oxygenated blood is taken to the heart, from the lungs into the left ventricle via the pulmonary veins

22. Blood pressure is considered high if it stays at ________ or higher.
120/80
95/40
130/70
140/90

23. Which of the following statements is not true?
Pulmonary arteries carry blood to both lungs
Blood is distributed throughout the body from the aorta
The coronary arteries supply the heart with blood
Wastes are carried by the blood from the body to the heart through the left ventricle

24. The ___________ is a strong wall of muscle that contracts to create a suction in the chest to draw in air and expand the lungs. When the muscle relaxes, the chest cavity decreases and the air is pushed out.
Pulmonary artery
Breathing apparatus
Trachea
Diaphragm

25. Which of the following statements is NOT true?
Consuming high sugar food right before exercising will give the body a boost of energy for your workout.
The body relies on stored energy to fuel a workout.
Diabetes is a disorder involving the way the body handles sugar.
Eating too much sugar immediately before or during exercise can increase the risk of gastrointestinal problems

26. Select the answer below that best describes how the lungs are kept free of germs and dirt from the air.
The alveoli act as filters for the lungs collecting particles of dirt and germs to be exhaled when the diaphragm relaxes
Tiny hairs known as cilia clean the trachea of dirt and germs before it can enter the lungs
Hairs known as cilia, found inside the alveoli, collect the dirt and germs to be expelled from the lungs
Mucus found in the bronchial tubes collects dirt and germs that gets into your lungs. Tiny hairs called cilia work to sweep out the debris collected to keep your lungs clean.

27. The term “a smoker’s cough” refers to ________________ , which is caused by a long-term inflammation of the bronchi.
Emphysema
Lung cancer
Chronic bronchitis
Cilia degeneration

28. Slow-twitch muscles are needed for:
Quick, short bursts of energy for high intensity
Endurance activities
Speed or power activities
Low endurance and short duration exercises

29. Select the answer below that best fits the following description.

Voluntary
Come in pairs
Attach to the bones through tendons
Made up of long, cylindrical fibers

Striated muscles
Cardiac muscles
Smooth muscles
Contracted muscles

Ok, this is long, and I apologize ahead of time. I am 21, recently graduated from college, and just came back from studying abroad in Paris on June 1st. The main problem I have is with my mother. She has threatened me with the, after July, if you don’t have a job, you need to do things exactly as I tell you, because you can’t be in my home eating my food, etc. etc. She never pressured me about having a job during college, even though I did look, but now that I am out of college, she has been treating me like I am a leech who has been lounging for 2 years! My graduation ceremony was in the beginning of May, but my program did not finish until the end of the month, so maybe she is stuck in the mind frame that I have been out of school since the beginning of May. I don’t know, but I do know I have never wanted to be out so badly in my life. We got into an argument recently over getting my hair edges trimmed! I cut my hair last December because I am tired of relaxing my hair, but she has not accepted it, even though she tries to act like she has. She is obsessed with finding some product that will make my hair look all the way curly and not like a small afro (I have thick, tiny curls that frizz in the heat). If she was so concerned about my finding a job, why has she spent 98.5 percent of her energy in concentrating on my hair and not on potential jobs or interview tips?? We have not spoken for almost a week. She goes through this thing where when she is mad she does not talk to the person she is mad at. So I am essentially trapped in my room when she gets back from work, because the only other place to go is the living room, which is where she watches her soaps from the day (we live in an apartment). When I first got back she was joking about her doing it to my grandmother as a teenager. She did this stuff as a teenager, but has yet to stop! I tried to make convo twice and she came back with an attitude, so I have just given up.

I want to go back to DC, because I spent my freshman year there, before I transferred back to my home state, but I can’t move there without any money (btw I had to finance my entire program on my own). I have NEVER asked her for money, EVER. I weigh around 100 pounds at 5′1, so I don’t eat her out of house and home (I have even started rationing my portions so it doesn’t look like I am eating alot, plus I feel guilty about eating the food when I’m not working). When she moved to Atlanta, she took out a loan on her car. She told me that she was determined to get me a car no matter what, so her idea was to get a new one, and with my student part time job, pay for her loan. I basically paid for her move down to Atlanta, even though she has been b****ing about it since she moved down here. I clean up the house, and I am looking for a job. I don’t care about getting a dream job here, not in this economy and in this city. I have four years worth of administrative and clerical work from my other jobs. I have applied to a couple of jobs, and 7 temporary agencies (2 this afternoon). I have even applied to Sears, Babies R US…just to find some form of income. I just came from an interview today with a temp agency, but I still feel so discouraged. I have been hearing the average times of finding a job after graduation is six months. Does this still apply for someone who will take any office job with a low salary requirement, who will even do a one day temp job? I just need some income to get her off my back, and to start saving to get out. Outside of applying, sending my resume and cover letters, following up, and basically stalking companies, I don’t know what to do.

HELP! I have two weeks left before she takes over, and I have NO IDEA what that means with her current behavior. I just want to be able to search for a job without this problem, but since that is not possible, what can I do differently to get any job???
Umm, so two things. I am not trying to stay in my mother’s apartment for the rest of my life. I have been planning to move to DC, work a few years there, and then get my doctorate. I originally wanted to get a job here, while searching for a full-time perm in DC. I was going to save up the money I had to pay rent, furniture, etc. once I finally got to DC (max in a year). I am doing the EXACT same things that everyone else who is unemployed is doing, but I have not gotten any leads. Which is why I asked this question. I don’t see how my mother is baby-sitting me. I just wanted advice or tips on how to get some kind of income to move out quicker. Btw, I am a female.

hi. im 19years old. And currently upset and not to happy in life.
All my life i have been picked on.Growing up I was overweight and very smart, and i had little friends as a kid. I always felt different and lonely. No one was there for me really.

When i got into highschool i made a ton of friends and lost weight. My grades began slipping. This was because, i went to a school with smart kids and i felt like i couldnt compete so i was just average. And highschool sucked for me. I didnt fit in. (im half black/half white) And once again kids made fun of me for that. And i feel ashamed of who i am. My parents dont get it or how i feel. My mom claims it growing pains but its so much more than that! My friends where phony, and boys where pigs!
I didnt graduate on time, i failed chemistry and i had to go to nite school for that on one class, so i didnt go to college right away. I beated myself up so much. And my parents wont let me forget it that i messed up. CHEMISTRY IS HARD! i failed that exam by 4 points. I literally never heard the end of it.
So now im 19.
stuck, confused , and upset!
my mom is battling lung cancer and my dad is always working. I dont know what to do. My mom keeps telling me to just live my life(which im doing) and not to worry. But its like im being mom now.
I have 2 younger brothers and i have to get them up and ready for school every day. Clean the house, laundry etc. im not being a spoiled brat, but why does it all fall on me? I have an older sister who is 20yrs, and she doesnt do anything! Shes never home, and never gets yelled at for anything! She uses the excuse that shes always working. SO am i! i work my butt off! My oldest brother who is moved out never calls or stops by.
I just want to be a 19 year old kid with not as many worries.
i feel so depressed. and theres always so much pressure on me.Everyone expects me to be perfect!and im not! no one is! My parents dont get it that people make mistakes! My dad blames every little thing on me! im always crying and so frustrated because no one will listen to me.
I dont feel beautiful or pretty, i gained 30lbs in the past to years and i just feel like i let myself down. i wanna be free. I wanna love me for me! and not be so hard on myself and just not let other things get to me.

And you can tell me what’s wrong with me, and why i have severe mood swings all of a sudden, and acting violent towards people i care about.

Okay, first off, i was born in 1992. My mom was 19, and my dad was in his mid 20s. My dad was a drug addict and alcoholic, but my mom wasn’t. I had to grow up hearing them argue and verbally/physically fight all the time, even though they didn’t live together and didn’t go out. One time when i was about 4, my parents were arguing on christmas eve, and i yelled for them to be quiet so santa could come. My dad came into my room and told me to shut the hell up, because santa wasn’t real. Then another time, i told my dad i hated him, and he replied back i hate you too and slammed my door. I’ve had to grow up hearing my parents have sex, which is so disturbing to hear your parents have sex. My dad raped my mom in front of me, he hit her in front of me, and yelled at both of us. My mom was young in the 90s, so on the weekends, she dropped me off at granny’s house so she could go party with her friends. I’m way closer to my granny because she basically raised me when i was young cause mom was never home. Both of my parents have been addicted to crack cocaine and alcohol (my mom has been clean for 6 years, but my dad still uses). My granny was physically abused by her husband (my grandpa) in the 70s, and when i was little in the 90s, they used to argue alot in front of me. I started liking girls when i was 5, and i had my first kiss with a girl when i was 5. I used to get beat up everyday in preschool by a girl who i would later discover was my cousin. I then transfered to an elementary school where the majority was whites, and in kindergarten, these twins wouldn’t invite me to their B-day party because i was colored. I basically had no real friends until 1st grade when these 2 black twins came to my school. I started having a crush on one of them, but they left in 2nd grade. I didn’t have a real friend until 5th grade, when this family moved to my city. I met this girl, who would eventually become my best friend. We’re still best friends now as seniors. When i went to middle school, i fell in love with this hispanic girl, and everyone found out. I was teased and beat up for the rest of the year, and i was suicidal twice that year. Then 7th grade was boring, and in 8th grade i did track and basketball. I came to high school, and freshman year was fun. 10th grade was okay, and 11th grade was good too. Now i’m going to be a senior next fall, but i am starting to have severe mood swings, and i’m thinking/acting violently. As you probably figured, i’m a lesbian, and when you become a teen, hormones start going crazy. My best friend is starting to notice guys, and i’m getting very jealous. I yell at her, and grab her arm telling her she better not talk to no guys while i’m her friend. I have dreams about hitting her and telling her she’s mine, and she’ll never talk to anyone unless i say so. We used to be very close, but now everytime we hang out, it’s akward, and i end up yelling at her and calling her out of her name. Also, my family is trying to pressure me to get a boyfriend, but i don’t want one. And my mom really wants me to have kids, but i don’t want kids. I’m joining the military, which my family is also opposed too. I have dreams about hurting people, but i want them to stop.

So there’s my life in a nutshell. What do you think my problem is? Why am i having mood swings and acting violent towards people? Do you think i need therapy?

And you can tell me what’s wrong with me, and why i have severe mood swings all of a sudden, and acting violent towards people i care about.

Okay, first off, i was born in 1992. My mom was 19, and my dad was in his mid 20s. My dad was a drug addict and alcoholic, but my mom wasn’t. I had to grow up hearing them argue and verbally/physically fight all the time, even though they didn’t live together and didn’t go out. One time when i was about 4, my parents were arguing on christmas eve, and i yelled for them to be quiet so santa could come. My dad came into my room and told me to shut the hell up, because santa wasn’t real. Then another time, i told my dad i hated him, and he replied back i hate you too and slammed my door. I’ve had to grow up hearing my parents have sex, which is so disturbing to hear your parents have sex. My dad raped my mom in front of me, he hit her in front of me, and yelled at both of us. My mom was young in the 90s, so on the weekends, she dropped me off at granny’s house so she could go party with her friends. I’m way closer to my granny because she basically raised me when i was young cause mom was never home. Both of my parents have been addicted to crack cocaine and alcohol (my mom has been clean for 6 years, but my dad still uses). My granny was physically abused by her husband (my grandpa) in the 70s, and when i was little in the 90s, they used to argue alot in front of me. I started liking girls when i was 5, and i had my first kiss with a girl when i was 5. I used to get beat up everyday in preschool by a girl who i would later discover was my cousin. I then transfered to an elementary school where the majority was whites, and in kindergarten, these twins wouldn’t invite me to their B-day party because i was colored. I basically had no real friends until 1st grade when these 2 black twins came to my school. I started having a crush on one of them, but they left in 2nd grade. I didn’t have a real friend until 5th grade, when this family moved to my city. I met this girl, who would eventually become my best friend. We’re still best friends now as seniors. When i went to middle school, i fell in love with this hispanic girl, and everyone found out. I was teased and beat up for the rest of the year, and i was suicidal twice that year. Then 7th grade was boring, and in 8th grade i did track and basketball. I came to high school, and freshman year was fun. 10th grade was okay, and 11th grade was good too. Now i’m going to be a senior next fall, but i am starting to have severe mood swings, and i’m thinking/acting violently. As you probably figured, i’m a lesbian, and when you become a teen, hormones start going crazy. My best friend is starting to notice guys, and i’m getting very jealous. I yell at her, and grab her arm telling her she better not talk to no guys while i’m her friend. I have dreams about hitting her and telling her she’s mine, and she’ll never talk to anyone unless i say so. We used to be very close, but now everytime we hang out, it’s akward, and i end up yelling at her and calling her out of her name. Also, my family is trying to pressure me to get a boyfriend, but i don’t want one. And my mom really wants me to have kids, but i don’t want kids. I’m joining the military, which my family is also opposed too. I have dreams about hurting people, but i want them to stop.

So there’s my life in a nutshell. What do you think my problem is? Why am i having mood swings and acting violent towards people? Do you think i need therapy?

Okay recently I took my cat to the vet because she’d been scratching at her neck constantly. So with that they find that she has a infection in her ear. They prescribed her ear drops and but told me to clean her ears out first, SO… I did, but Mia, My cat hates ear drops and she shook when I was giving them to her therefore causing them to get into her eye. I immediately flushed her eyes(both) out with water. Later that night I notice that one pupil was normal and her other pupil was tiny. The next day I took her to the vet and he said her eye was okay, and he put some stuff in it to dilate it and I was told to come back in 7 days to check on her ears.. Meanwhile Im giving her ear drops and her eye finally starts going back to normal she her balance is off a little when she shakes her head, and when she jumped off my bed… But while that’s happens, her pupil goes back to being tiny again. So I just kinda wondered about it… not to worried. Then I notice that she is wanting to be near me constantly, wanting under my blankets…(Note she never likes to being under blankets) So I blow that off too, thinking maybe she’s just cold with the air conditioning. Okay so then She wouldn’t eat her food… I feed her twice a day because shes on a diet, and its a VERY rare occasion when she turns her nose up on her dry food… So, worried I grab my other cats wet food and feed her that. The next day i take her back to the vet to get her ears checked on the make sure her infection was gone…. But her eye… is still messed up not normal… The vet told me to stop the ear drops and gave me some pills to give her. and told me that he’s worried about the ears and the balance thing, and that she wouldn’t eat, and the hes starts saying stuff like she might have a tumor or a growth back behind her ears giving them pressure making her lose her balance and making that eye do funny things… He did admit he was baffled about her eyes, because he said they were completely functioning correctly, they just didn’t match up….which isn’t normal… So I’ll take her back in, in 5 days to see if shes improving…. But I was wondering if any one had any idea what might be wrong with my cat… Cause I’m really hoping she doesn’t have some tumor or anything…