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Either by herself or by force submission.

The penis get erected by engorge in blood. To do that these things must take place:

1-Blood displace from brain and muscle to the penis.
2-He must be relax + arousal by the woman’s beauty.
3-To relax he must be free of stress: not worry about getting caught/ get infected with STD
3a- To get 3 he must be either: stupid + career criminal
4- If #3 is not the case, He must have very high blood pressure. Otherwise, there would be insufficient of blood rush to the penis. Yet, high blood pressure men are usually erectile dysfunction= he must be young.
At least , #4 must happens in rape forbidden Western Society.

The notion of rape is ONLY about power, seem to be highly error

Conclusion: Either the women must submit herself by fear/ arousal, OR being knock out before rape take place. In either case rapists, would have to be a very rare species of men.

You thought?
If the rapist still has to struggle with the woman/ or Stressful, his blood would still reside in the arm muscle/ brain, making in a physiology impossible to get erected. Unless he is a freak, a super man.
@Arturo: I am not doing drug/ drunk. I only smoke completely sober now.
@Never trust a hippy: I can NEVER get erected without being relax/ free of fear and arouse by the woman herself.

You must be very unsual if you can w/o the above conditions satisfied.

The boyfriend of the girl i like broke up with her 4 months ago. I told her how i felt about her a while back and after her break up, she started talking to me more. A couple of months ago i asked her if she feels the same about me, she said she does and she could see a relationship happening but she doesn’t want a relationship right now. We go to different colleges so for the past few months we have been chatting by text almost everyday. What can i do or say, over time, to give myself the best chance at eventually starting a relationship with her, also without putting unwanted pressure on her?

We went to school together since 1st grade but my feelings for her didn’t start until high school. The only problem was, when my feelings changed she was in the relationship that just broke off.
3 hours ago - 4 days left to answer.

He has slightly high blood pressure (like 160 over 90) and takes meds for that
and he takes a cholesterol med
and he needs to lose about 20 pounds or so

Will the time he smoked cut his life expectancy?
my question was, does smoking for 20 years cut a person’s life expectancy, even though he quit?

Okay, I’ll tell you from the get go this a long ass post, I’m not very good at summarizing and always want to include all the details.

The story starts with a girl I saw in a class in summer 2008. I’m not gonna lie, I was immediately attracted to her, and wanted what any guy wants with a girl he thinks is hot. However I’m pretty shy and I couldn’t think of a way to introduce myself to her. However as time went on, I noticed things about her that made her seem different to me then any other girl. First she wasn’t one of those girls that was always texting, asking stupid questions to the professors, or even flirting with any of the guys in class. She came in, always sat in the front row, put her glasses on and paid attn the entire class period. I should have asked her then if she would like to study for a test or something but like I said I was pretty shy, so never said anything to her.

Fast forward to Fall 2008, she is in another one of my classes. This time I manage to talk to her one day when class was leaving, saying something like she was in my stats class (which was a small class, around 30 students) and what she grade she ended up with, blah blah blah. I found her name and added her as a friend on facebook. She never came to my fall 08 class much, so throughout that semester we talked occasionally on facebook. I found out she was the same major as me, she wants to become a doctor. But other then that not much, she seemed very closed. This may seem stalkerish but through facebook it seemed she only hung out with a very tight circle of friends. Again I never manged to ask her if she wanted to study for the class we had together or something. Anyways, start of spring 09, I asked her one day (yes, sadly on facebook again) what she ended up getting in that class we had. She said she barely passed and she changed her majors, she doenst know what she wants to do in her life.

My roommate said this was the prefect opportunity to ask her if she wanted to go out for coffee sometime and talk. Which after much peer pressure, I did. Of course, on facebook since I did not have her number. She never replied. I lost any confidence I had since then. I saw her quite a few times on campus since then, but every time I did my best to ignore her due to panic and embarrassment to face her. Summer 09 I found out she has a boyfriend, which surprisingly went to the same high school as my roommate. They didn’t know each other that well, but according my roommate is pretty damn surprising they are dating cuz her boyfriend doest seem her type at all.

Well anyways, its now spring 2010. I come to find out she’s in one of my classes, which I thought was weird, since her major was completely different. Anyways, the 2nd day of class, I managed to approach her and she either did recognize me or pretended to. Either way, we talked briefly, found out that the major she changed to wasn’t for her either and she’s back in our old field to give it another go.

At this point, I just want to be her friend. I have no intention of being a “homewrecker” though sometimes the thought does cross my mind, what if her and her boyfriend weren’t meant to be. Anyone one seen wedding crashers? Like Owen Wilson and Rachael mcadams.

Anyways, at this point I just wanna get to know her more personally and just hang out with her. She seems she’s not sure who she is and what she really wants in life. Basically I just wanna spend some time with this girl, I have no intention of doing anything intimate or get between her and her boyfriend. I just want to be her friend right now, I don’t why I haven’t been able to get my mind off of this girl. She just intrigues me in every way. A lot of people doubt a guy can accomplish this role, because sometime down the line he’s going to want more. I may not have confidence to talk to girls but I’ve positive I can handle a role as a friend and will not ask or want more.

Thoughts, opinions, ideas on my situation please? I’ve only seen her that one day in class, since then we’d had a pretty long break due to holidays. My next step I would like to do is try to sit next to her in class, idk if I’ll be able to. Almost had a heart attack just trying to bring myself to talk to her the first time, lol. Even if I manage to sit next to her, I have no idea what to say, and what she’ll think. It haunts me knowing that she read that coffee message and never replied and now she might be thinking this guy is trying to get at her again. After that year long break I had from her, I had almost forgotten about her till now. Fate?

Almost a year ago our son in his 40s had a relationship break-up and asked if he could come home and live with me and my husband. We agreed.

Our son said he had a lot of things he needed to sort through. To do this, he said he would need to take over my studio/workshop. So take over he did. He has covered my tables and has certainly taken over my area that I cannot even work there. Now, from going from my own ‘little retreat’ it has become a place of complete and utter disarray. It has nearly reduced me to tears.

My husband suffers from a health problem and does not have the strength to address this issue. So I am on my own here. It used to be lovely to go into my own little space and listen to the radio while I was working, but now that is all gone.

Our son is now starting to take over the house too. He works shift work and when he comes in in the early hours of the morning, I wake up to my living/dining room in a mess. I even found some muddy old shoes of his on top of my lovely old oak dresser this morning. I wake up to dishes not washed and sometimes he even leaves the sauce bottle, butter and bread on the kitchen table. In this heat, the butter goes rancid very quickly.

I said to our son that he needed to stop using our home as a dumping ground. He said it was all my fault as I had not given him any guidance and had not set any ground rules. He said I needed to tell him to put the stuff. I said I should not have to tell him.

He knows my standards are high. I feel he is just dragging his feet and making waves and passing the buck to me. He lacks motivation, there are things he should be doing around home for himself not just for me and because of the trauma he has been through I do not to pressure him too much.

I know he will be angry if I really start laying the law down.

Who is right here?

Do you think it’s a good idea to be friends with your college advisor?

I remember last year, when I met my advisor, I thought she was really cute. So when I picked my classes in her office, I told her she was pretty and she kinf of giggled and said, Thanks!

So anyway, she happened to be Black. So I started emailing her because I thought she seemed cool. Her and I conversed back and forth and she would reply to my emails.

I remember I actually talked to her once about interracial dating and I vented to her about my mother. I told her that mother doesn’t approve of it. I DONT KNOW WHY I brought it up with my advisor. It was probably because at the time, I had just gotten in an argument with my mother about it and I needed to vent.

I also asked her what she thought of interracial dating and she said she would date a White guy and that all that matters to her is how the guy treats her. I just hope she didn’t say that because she felt pressured.

I didn’t mean to make my advisor feel uncomfortable. I don’t think she felt uncomfortable, maybe just a little shocked.

So, when I was off for Christmas break last year (Winter 2008), her and I talked more just about interests, movies and music. She would reply back and stuff.

I asked her if I was interfering with her work and she said I wasn’t.

So anyway, when I went back to school for Spring registration, I noticed her eyes had looked terrible and she looked kind of depressed.

Maybe I was bother her after all?

So as a result, I stopped emailing her because I didn’t realize how I was making her feel. It’s been over a year since I’ve emailed her now.

I still think she seems like a nice person, she says hi to me whenever she sees me at school. She’s like, Hi! in kind of a high, flirty(however you describe that) tone.

The scary thing was though, I remember when I went to her office for Spring registration, there was a campus security guard present in the office. I just hope he wasn’t there because of me!

The funny thing is too, I went on Facebook and I realize she has a Facebook page. I looked on the pages that she’s a fan of and I saw a page for a place that teaches POLE DANCING!!

You believe that?

Well technically, they teach other aerobics and stuff but I still thought it was funny and kind of sexy.

So what do you guys think? Was I a bad person or creeper for emailing her so much?

If she says hi to me at school, I’ll say hi back. But I’m afraid to start a conversation with her out of fear making her feel uncomfortable.

I also told her that I prefer to date Black women.

I don’t feel like that so much anymore though.

I’m still attracted to some Black women but I like all women really.
I notice if she’s with one of her friends, she doesn’t talk to me as much.

But she talks to me when she’s alone.

I remember last year, when I met my advisor, I thought she was really cute. So when I picked my classes in her office, I told her she was pretty and she kinf of giggled and said, Thanks!

So anyway, she happened to be Black. So I started emailing her because I thought she seemed cool. Her and I conversed back and forth and she would reply to my emails.

I remember I actually talked to her once about interracial dating and I vented to her about my mother. I told her that mother doesn’t approve of it. I DONT KNOW WHY I brought it up with my advisor. It was probably because at the time, I had just gotten in an argument with my mother about it and I needed to vent.

I also asked her what she thought of interracial dating and she said she would date a White guy and that all that matters to her is how the guy treats her. I just hope she didn’t say that because she felt pressured.

I didn’t mean to make my advisor feel uncomfortable. I don’t think she felt uncomfortable, maybe just a little shocked.

So, when I was off for Christmas break last year (Winter 2008), her and I talked more just about interests, movies and music. She would reply back and stuff.

I asked her if I was interfering with her work and she said I wasn’t.

So anyway, when I went back to school for Spring registration, I noticed her eyes had looked terrible and she looked kind of depressed.

Maybe I was bother her after all?

So as a result, I stopped emailing her because I didn’t realize how I was making her feel. It’s been over a year since I’ve emailed her now.

I still think she seems like a nice person, she says hi to me whenever she sees me at school. She’s like, Hi! in kind of a high, flirty(however you describe that) tone.

The scary thing was though, I remember when I went to her office for Spring registration, there was a campus security guard present in the office. I just hope he wasn’t there because of me!

The funny thing is too, I went on Facebook and I realize she has a Facebook page. I looked on the pages that she’s a fan of and I saw a page for a place that teaches POLE DANCING!!

You believe that?

Well technically, they teach other aerobics and stuff but I still thought it was funny and kind of sexy.

So what do you guys think? Was I a bad person or creeper for emailing her so much?

If she says hi to me at school, I’ll say hi back. But I’m afraid to start a conversation with her out of fear making her feel uncomfortable.

I also told her that I prefer to date Black women.

I don’t feel like that so much anymore though.

I’m still attracted to some Black women but I like all women really.

I’ve thought about adding her on facebook too. I don’t think she knows I have a facebook.

I notice she talks to me more when she’s not with one of her female coworkers. She kind of clams up when she’s with one of them. But talks to me when she’s alone.

I remember last week, she was showing some guy around I was walking down the hallway and she was like Heeeeey! in a flirty voice and I said hi back and smiled.

*I am not a troll or some creepy man who’s getting off by asking this question. I’m serious.*

I started masturbating about half a year ago. Ever since I discovered it, I’ve been all over it. Mon-Fri combined, I masturbate 3-8 times. On Sat and Sun I masturbate 2-3 times a day. If you average that out, it’s at least once a day. What?? I thought girls weren’t supposed to want sex (in my case masturbation…) every day! I keep on hearing stories about women who want sex only once every month or two. How is that possible?!!

I’m beginning to get a little freaked out with myself. I mean, heh, last time I checked… I’m not a guy! Why is my sexual drive so high? I’m so horny all the time… and like I’ll find myself wanting to stare at guys’ crotches - ew! I’m such a pervert By my looks most people wouldn’t expect me to be a pervert because I look so innocent so I feel really strange being like this.

I feel bad for hormonal high school guys who aren’t able to get any. I mean they are probably even hornier than I am and I can barely restrain myself - but of course I’m still on the girls’ side and wouldn’t want them to treat girls badly and with disrespect! I used to not understand why guys pressure girls for sex but now I do. Now I want sex too, sooo badly! And I’m only 16. I don’t know how much longer I can restrain myself to wait to have sex. If a guy approached me for sex right now I feel like I would jump at the opportunity, which worries me. I feel dirty and sleazy because in class at school, I want to pounce on guys all the time…

On a side note, do you think I will wear myself out now with all this masturbation and then when I grow older I won’t want as much sex? I worry that when I get a boyfriend I’ll want more sex than he does, because some guys actually don’t have that high of a sexual drive, yaknow? =\

Basically I just wanted to ask, AM I WEIRD? I feel like most other girls aren’t that horny.
Hah, sorry my explanation is so long!

I have always had low blood pressure. It has been 100/70 since I have been pregnant last check up was on Tuesday and no protein in urine and no high bp. Lately I noticed floaters more now I am not sure if this is part of it or the start of it.. Or is it normal.. Please give me advice please (I am currently 34 weeks 5 days pregnant) Thank you!

pure water
solution of C12H22O11 (m = 0.01) in water
solution of NaCl (m = 0.01) in water
solution of CaCl2 (m = 0.01) in water

a) highest freezing point
b) lowest freezing point
c) highest boiling point
d) lowest boiling point
e) highest osmotic pressure